Run to something, not away from something

Something I wanted to do almost all my life. Run from where I am. What I am. But then I understood one important thing. No matter where you go, you take yourself with you, and all the issues you have within. You just can’t run from yourself.

So if you run, run to something. Take yourself with you, and work on your issues. It might be easier somewhere else. Sometimes it is only possible somewhere else. But never run because of yourself. It just doesn’t work.

Run to something not from

Pose: Bauhaus Movement – Yuka Umbrella 2

Dress: Addams // Lemon Dress // N*21
Shoes: #EMPIRE – Nymphea
Hair: TRUTH VIP November – Ginevra


Woah, careful man!

I want to keep it short today. Many of you are probably already busy preparing for friends and family to “invade” your house, putting out the last decorations or getting ready for the Thanksgiving Football game. On your way to the airport to go visit the family across the country? Be careful out there on the streets, you never know where the guys got there eyes when it gets a bit chaotic ^^

Happy Thanksgiving! And you all have fun shopping tomorrow ;)

Careful man

Pose: GingerFish Poses – Ciao
Taken at: Neive

Top: Kaithleen’s Offshoulder Fur Top – Red @ Tres Chic
Pants: Addams // Terry Pants // N*35
Shoes: #EMPIRE – Petunia
Hair: Stealthic -Reprise (Blondes)



English lessons

As you know, I am no native english speaker. So I constantly run into sentences, words, sayings and such I don’t get the meaning.

Most of the time I look them up in “Urban Dictionary“, but the last time I did it, it made me spit my coffee. My bestie calls me “turd” all the time, and when I looked it up … well ya can imagine :D

So today I asked her “Hey, that term ‘I am a sucker for…’, what does that actually mean?”
She explained and explained, all made really sense. Then she came up with some cute examples. Like “I’m a sucker for cute puppies”
But then: “You are a sucker for Ewan McGregor.”
You can imagine, that was the point my coffee went towards my screen again :D

to the moon and back

Pose & Props: GingerFish Poses – Smoked

Jacket: Addams // Charlize Biker Jacket // Beige
Top: ChicModa // Carol Top
Skirt: Addams // Daga Skirt // N*1
Shoes: #EMPIRE – Lavatera
Hair: TRUTH Cheri – Blonde

Born this way

I already talked about friendship and honesty. Let’s talk a bit more about it. Friendship, loyalty, and being open hearted.

Almost exactly 4 years ago I met a great guy on SL. Let’s call him Jim. We actually clicked right away, and what started as a SL relationship quickly became a RL friendship. Even though we never met RL – but we had that already, right? Skype, flatrate and such.

As time went by we talked about everything real life. Job, issues, happy times. I was at his side when his father got sick and died, he had my back when I went through a major crisis.

Some day he started to talk more and more about those who are androgyneous, until I got a little suspicious. I frankly asked “Jim, are you? Androgyneous I mean?”
After some studders and hard swallowing he mumbled a silent “mmhmm”
I can only imagine how he must have felt. “How will she react? Will she be disgusted?”
Nope, she wasn’t at all. All I thought was “As much as he knows about make up, I should have known!” and I snickered and said “ok, and the alt you were talking about is….”

Well, at that time it was a male avatar. Jim quickly changed it to a female. But oh what a female. No curves, flat butt, nothing in her shirt, all black clothes, dark skin, black hair, dark make up. The whole avatar screamed “don’t look at me. Don’t see me. I am just hiding here”
Over time she gained self confidence, and today she is one of the sexiest girls I know. Gosh that girl has a butt now :D
She looks at me like a Mom on SL, and I seriously love my sweet babygirl

Be open hearted with your friends. If they can’t come to your with their most important concerns, then to whom shall they go? You don’t have to understand it, but you can always accept them as they are.


Pose & Prop: FOXCITY. Pinky Swear

Steph (right) wears:
Top: ChicModa // Cyndi Top
Shorts: Blueberry – Cossy – Denim Ripped Shorts – Midnight
Hair: TRUTH VIP October – Makena

Me (left)
Top: ChicModa // Cyndi Top
Shorts: Addams // Sienna Ripped Short // Glycine
Hair: TRUTH Cheri – Blonde

Can’t stop the feeling

We all know that, we wake up with a song stuck in our heads. Today was one of these mornings. Soooo.. usually I am so NO morning person, bu with this song in my head its different. No wonder, it’s Friday.
Guess I am a bit mean an share this “earworm” with you. Happy Friday all :D

Cant stop the feeling

Pose : GingerFish Poses – Groove Baby 5

Top: Addams // Hara VNeck Top // N*1
Jeans: Blueberry – Serena Jeans – Maitreya/Belleza/Slink – Light Blue
Hair: TRUTH VIP – September
Headphones: Unisex[MANDALA]EARGASM Headphones

What about us

Whenever I turn on the news these days, I can’t believe what I see. The whole world seems to go crazy. I just let the music tell how it makes me feel…

Blog 09_11_2017

Pose:  FOXCITY. Recollection (VIP Gift 10-17)

Top: ChicModa // Josie Sweater @ Sad November starting November 11
Shorts: Addams // Malena Denim Short High Rise // Black
Boots: #EMPIRE – Laurel @ Collabor88
Hair: Stealthic – Paradox (Blondes)


Bring me to life

♫ How can you see into my eyes, like open doors
Leading you down into my core
Where I’ve become so numb,
Without a soul
My spirit’s sleeping somewhere cold
Until you find it there and lead it back

Bring me o life

Pose: .:Joplino:. – Be Free – Exclusive @ Designer Circle

I am wearing:
Top: .miss chelsea. – Alva Tank Grey @ Uber
Skirt: Addams // Amy Long Skirt w/Belt // Hueso
Hair:  *ARGRACE* KOHAKU – Coppers

He is wearing:
Pants:  RIOT / Brody Jeans – Blue 64
Hair:  MINA – Conrad – Black
Body, hands and feet: Slink
Skin:  7 Deadly s{K}ins: Judas Box3 Skintone4

and my basics:
Head: Catwa Tumble
Head Applier: amara beauty – Tori 05 toffee Catwa Applier
Body: Maitreya Lara
Skin: amara beauty – maitreya applier v.2
Hands Applier: amara beauty – omega applier v.2 (body, hands & feet)