You should do more

A close friend of mine likes my black and white pictures. Lately he wasn’t feeling really well, but even not being online at all, he took a peek at my blog every day. Today we talked for the first time after almost two weeks, and he said “I love your black and white pictures, you should do more”

And his wish is my command. So here is another monochrome photo. And even not showing the color of the beautiful bodysuit, it shows perfectly how beautiful the applications are made. I knew this would be perfect for a black and white picture, but I wasn’t expecting how beautiful it would come out.

Could you do

Pose & Prop: FOXCITY. Bad Kitty Bento Pose Set

Bodysuit: _CandyDoll_Aerissa Set Aqua
Hair: Exile – Blown Away – Blondes



Those of you who know me already know, I love doing pictures, I am not always about fashion. Especially the monochrome pictures I love a lot.

Today I was in the mood for another one. And I think now I am in the right mood for a glas of wine and a good book out of that cage ღ



Pose & Prop: Reve Obscura – *!R.O!* Perceiving BENTO Pose w/ Mesh Wine Glass

Fireplace: Fancy Decor: Fireplace
Birdcage: brocante. – book birdcage
Shorts & Top: Apple May Designs – Shae @ Sad November
Shoes: _CandyDoll_ Anda Heels

(Not so) Sad November

The darker time of the year starts up here in the northern hemisphere, and many people deal with moodswings, mostly it’s going south. I envy a little bit our friends in Australia, New Zealand and so on. For them it is Spring….

Yes I deal with those sad moods too. The lack of daylight, the grey and nasty weather outside.. but there are so many ways to lighten up your mood. I already talked a lot about music. Listen to happy songs. Uptempo. Avoid the sad “oh I am such a whiny guy” songs. And bring some color into your life.
Or just get comfy and enjoy that weather. Couch, a blanket, some hot chocolate and a good movie.
Or – combine it. Bring some color into your life while you get comfy – with your loved one maybe? I think I found a perfect example how to do it at Sad November, let me show you:



Pose & Props: GingerFish Poses – Cinema Verite box @ Sad November

Top and Pants: Apple May Designs – Shae – Pale Pink @ Sad November
Shoes: _CandyDoll_ Anda Heels Lights Colors
Hair: TRUTH Cheri – Blonde

Back to blogging?Back to blogging!

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For several months I was gone from the internet. In March my “box” broke, and due to some health issues it took some months for me to get it fixed by my provider and get back. Back on my feet, back to some kind of normal. Get back my life, and then at some point get back my internet.

When I finally got back, many things changed for me. And I had to change things to stay mentally sane. So not only did I drop a job I loved, I also dropped blogging. Deadlines turned out to be stress for me, and it actually “killed” my whole creativity. I had a feeling my photos got worse instead of better. So I decided to stop blogging.

The thing that is stable for so many years is the amazing friendship I have with Sassy Nitely, and I am fortunate and blessed to work with my bestie. And with the changes in that job, with the evolving of her brand, by sharing all the excitement we had with every new creation she did, my fun came back and my addiction to take pictures hit me again.

Now I decided to go back to blogging. With some changes. No sponsors. Less blogs, but those blogs I do will be done with fun :)

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Pose (both photos): FOXCITY. Bad Kitty VOL2 Bento Pose Set

Top: Vinyl – LIT Flannel Pak PINK @ Uber
Leggings: Blueberry – Cake – Maitreya/Belleza/Slink – {Extra 8}
Boots: _CandyDoll_ Alaria Boots – Light Colors @ Uber
Hair: Stealthic – Jealousy (Blondes)
Rings: **RE** Luxy Rings Set 1.3
Nailpolish: {ZOZ} Bold II Natural Polish (Maitreya)

Boogie Woogie Bugle Boy

♫He was a famous trumpet man from out Chicago way
He had a boogie style that no one else could play
He was the top man at his craft
But then his number came up and he was gone with the draft
He’s in the army now, a-blowin’ reveille
He’s the boogie woogie bugle boy of Company B♫

Can you listen to this without wiggling and tapping with your foot? I just can’t. This song is old, but still soo good and defenitely one of my “good mood” songs. Whether I am sad or mad, this song puts me into a good mood in a few seconds


Pose & Prop: Image Essentials – Classic Caddy (b)
Image Essentials is making room in the store!
From Friday, March 24 till Sunday, April 2 Image Essentials will have a huge Retirement Sale! About 3/4 of the store is going on sale for only 25L. After the sale the poses will only be available through the Marketplace. Stay tuned for the LM!

Shoes: CandyDoll –  Anda Heels Lights Colors

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Hair: Doe: Aspen (twotone) – Gingers
Romper: CandyDoll –  Betty 50’s Nude

and my basics:
Head: Catwa Tumble
Head Applier: amara beauty – Tori 05 toffee Catwa Applier
Body: Maitreya Lara
Skin: amara beauty – maitreya applier v.2
Hands Applier: amara beauty – omega applier v.2 (body, hands & feet)

Be a Queen of hearts!


Location & pose: Photostudio @ Image Essentials (free to use for group members)

The world out there is a harsh place sometimes. If you play your cards right, you can make it a little bit better. Be nice. Be helpful. Smile at someone, you never know what this can mean to a tranger to see a friendly face.

I was in a pretty feisty mood today, and still felt like this. Ah well, it was more bratty than feisty. One friendly face with a smile of a person I never saw before did quite a change for my mood ;)
Now lets take a closer look at what I am wearing today.


Dress: CandyDoll – Inna Dress Cream @ FaMESHed
Hair: MINA  – Estelle – Dark red

I saw this cute dress and immediately fell in love with it. This is soo “Ana” Style ;) Even the one color version comes with a belt hud with so many colors in it that you can easily fit it to anything you wear with it. Which is perfect since it also comes in a tight and a loose version to wear it with your favorite skirt, leggings etc…


Shoes: Slipper Originals – Tiffany Sandals ~ Exclusive for The Chapter Four – March 4 – 18th

I am not this over romantic cheesy giggly “I need pinky hearts all over” girl. But these are so *my* heels. Platform but still not looking like a block glued to my feet, instead they are feminine and graceful looking. I jsut dont want to take them off anymore. They come with a hud with endless options. You can color the shoe, heart, sole and heel. And yes, also in pink of course ;) You can find them in the Half Price Room!


Bangles: je suis…de retour – bangles
Rings: Absolut Vendetta -Hydra Bento Rings
Nails: +Spellbound+ Spooky Salon // Creature Claws @ The Arcade Gacha Events

These Bangles come with a beautiful hud. You can change the color of the bangles themselves, the metal inside and also the gems. Endless options to really make them fit to your outfit!

Head: Catwa Tumble
Head Applier: amara beauty – Tori 05 toffee Catwa Applier
Body: Maitreya Lara
Skin: amara beauty – maitreya applier v.2
Hands Applier: amara beauty – omega applier v.2 (body, hands & feet)

Je suis sin.. cynful


I always try to tell you all a little bit that goes with the pictures. Be it about Bish Box, be it a short little story, or maybe just some music.
Today I am at a loss. I just got accepted by a new sponsor, and considering how new I am at blogging I am honestly flattered and I admit, I am dancing here in my chair like a child at christmas morning ;)

So, let me show you that beautiful lipstick from Je suis. I wear it with the new dress from Cynful and the lovely shoes from CandyDoll


Location: private

Pose: Drunk Panda Poses ShowYourFeet 4

Desk & Chair: LAQ Decor ~ Secretary Desk (Multi-color System)
Pet: MishMish – Teacup Pomeranian – Stance B (pink)

Hair: Stealthic – Vapor (Reds)
Eyes: IKON Triumph Eyes – Coffee
Nosering: PUNCH / Diamond Nose Ring

Make up:
Eyeshadow: .euphoric ~ Drew  Eyeliner Applier ~[Catwa]
Lipstick: je suis…Catwa lips no. 002 – [purples]


I am wearing:

Dress incuding necklace and braceletts: [Cynful] Persuede Dress – Mint
Shoes: CandyDoll – Anda Heels Lights Colors

Head: Catwa Tumble
Head Applier: amara beauty – Tori 05 toffee Catwa Applier
Body: Maitreya Lara
Skin: amara beauty – maitreya applier v.2
Hands Applier: amara beauty – omega applier v.2 (body, hands & feet)