Follow your instincts

Sometimes it is hard. Your head tells you to not do something, pure logic tells you to not do something, it is just reasonable to not do something. But every cell in you says “do it!”. Then just listen to it. Same goes for the “don’t do it” version. If your stomach cringes by the thought of doing something, then just don’t touch it, even if every reason tells you to do it. I learned that lesson kind of hard in my life.
Today I was in such a situation. Reason told me it is insane to do something. But something inside me told me to do it. We will see what the outcome is – I did it and even if everyone would tell me “you are nuts” – I am calm, I have faith ^^

Follow your instincts

Pose: Bauhaus Movement – There is something

Dress: fame femme : Rina Dress – Grey @ Cosmopolitan
Shoes: #EMPIRE – Nymphea
Hair: Stealthic – Reprise (Blondes)


Beautiful Rose

“There is something about a rose on a beautiful woman” someone told a friend of mine not long ago when she was thinking of a tattoo. I had to think of that when I saw this tattoo.

After recommending this one to her I couldn’t resist to get it for myself. Whoever said that sentence was so right. I love roses, even if they give me a rl headache in our rl garden. They are some divas, trust me.

Beautiful Rose

Pose: Bauhaus Movement – Shattered Mind 13

Tattoo: .Absence. Evelina Tattoo Appliers
Pasties & Chest Piercings: RealEvil INdustries – **RE** Noor Set
Hair: TRUTH Lady – Blonde


Sometimes I think it is not so long ago that I smiled at those old ladies, sitting on a park bench, feeding the little birds in the winter. The other day, I smiled about myself, sitting on a bench …… don’t smile about me, will you please?

Sunday Très Chic opens it’s gates, and for the first time ChicModa is part of it. *YAY* And came up with this supercute dress and scarf.

Dress and scarf are sold seperately, you can also get an “all scarves pack” , an “all dresses pack” and of course a fullpack. All is of course hud driven, and the colors and patterns will make it so hard for you to decide, which one you want.
Talking about the hud: you can change the belt and button color even in the single packs of the dress!
Which buttons, you ask? Go get a demo, then look at your back ;)

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Pose: Bauhaus Movement – Fade to Black 320 Kbps 21
Picture taken at *Seven Seasons*

Dress: ChicModa // Olivia Dress and Scarf @ Très Chic opening December 17
Hair: {Limerence} Nicole hair-Blonds
Thights: Izzie’s – Maitreya Lara – Applier Cozy Tights
Boots: *Just BECAUSE* Anna Boots

Chickadee Tremor

A few weeks ago The Blogger & Vlogger Network came up with a wonderful idea. “Put your name into an imaginary hat, everyone will get a name from there, and write a blog about the blogger you will get.”

I liked that idea a lot, threw my own name in (and yes, I am soooo curious who got my name out of that imaginary hat) and the name that was send to me was

Checkadee Tremor

Immediately I took a look at her blog and right away I liked a lot what I saw. Chickadee is seriously funny. I mean really funny! So I decided, I ask her if she will give me the permission to use one or two of her photos to show you guys a bit of her work. The answer was yes… but the absolute best came right after that:

” ….right now I’m laying on the floor in this skybox with lights wrapped around my legs and my glasses are askew. I might be just a little off. You never know.”
That was at 8am during my breakfast, and it was the perfect start of my day. Thank you for that, Chickadee ♥

Have I meantioned she is funny as sh…. ?? :D here is what she was doing at that time:


But that is not the first time I saw her work. The very first time I ever saw a photo of her, I will absolutely never forget. It made my jaw drop, it made me stare at that photo for minutes, it made me go back to it over and over. (See photo at the end to take a look at my “longterm” reaction)
the photo is not funny at all, but it is mysterious, dark and …. well not only her, not only him, but the whole scene is sooooooo very sexy, I just hope those two will do more like this together! Pretty please!


I seriously recommend to follow her. I sure do it, and I really want to see more of her and her weird but so hilarious sense of humour!

Chickadee’s blog: Just a Girl in Second Life

Chickadee on Flickr: Just a Girl

And finally: This is me looking at the photo right above ^

BVN Secret Santa 2017

Pose: Bauhaus Movement – Augmented Reality 06

Bodysuit: #EMPIRE – 90’s Body @ Collabor88
Hair: Tableau Vivant \\ Wispers in the wind.v5 – Blonds

“Throw your best friend under the bus” challenge

A challenge that does not exist. But if it would, my bestie and me would totally win it. Every single time. Not one week we don’t do that to each other at least once. Each. No joke. Just today she totally posted a picture of me on Facebook. In sexy golden top and shorts. So far, so good, but combined with black thights and blue metallic shoes? Extremely sexy … not! Yes, we do love each other. Can’t beat us on that. :D

Well, I need to try and get some trust back. Your trust. In my “Fashion mojo” as another, slightly taller Ana called it.

This is a party outfit I found at Collabor88. Hey, I always knew, if you need the real cute look, go to Tres Blah. But this is seriously the “Cute & Sexy Look”! It immediately changed my plans to get me a half sheer long gown for the party. This is ooooo much better. And it has glitter!

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Let’s talk about the right make up now. A dress like that needs color, glitter and shine without looking slutty. Studio Exposure came up with an amazing group gift this month that is exactly what is needed for an outfit like this

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Upper picture: 

Pose: Bauhaus Movement – Mannequin 05

Top: Tres Blah – Draped Halter – Silver @ Collabor88
Skirt: Tres Blah – Party Skirt – Black @ Collabor88
Hair: TRUTH Apple – Multitone 1

Lower picture:

Pose: FOXCITY. Highlights VOL2-6m

Hair: TRUTH Apple – Multitone 1

Does this count as formal?

It does. I just decided it does. Show me where it says “formal has to be long”. “Formal has to be a gown”.

This super sexy dress, just released by Blueberry, is golden. So I declare it formal! Besides that, it is tight, short, shoulders free – this is my way of being formal. Smart formal. Sexy formal. oh it does make me feel sexy, makes me feel all dressed up. Perfect!

So now, where is the party?

May Way of being FOrmal

Pose: Bauhaus Movement – Sun

Dress: Blueberry – Bree Dress – Maitreya/Belleza/Slink – Gold Pack
Shoes: Blueberry – Celia – Maitreya/Belleza/Slink – Fat Pack
Hair: TRUTH Lady – Blonde

Go to Bed He Said

So I did. Slipped into my nighty and crawled into bed. And then my head started. Jumping from one idea to the next. From a photo idea to a story idea to pondering if I checked when my bus will leave tomorrow to “did you turn off the coffee maker” back to photos… till I got back up. Growling. Who can sleep when your head refuses to stop?

Couch… computer, lets see if that photo idea will turn out ok, then back to bed. Being a good girl feels somewhat nice. Now be a good head also!

Go to Bed He Said

Pose: Bauhaus Movement – Rui

Bodysuit: .::Dead Dollz::. Scarlett Bodysuit – Black
Hair: TRUTH VIP November – Ginevra